|son Daniel & I in Crossgate Cupar 17Sep17|
I've been faced with it in many different forms by people in positions of power who don't like a survivor Mother speaking out, the repercussions, and take it out on me. It's not been pleasant but I've got more used to it, and prepared for it.
It can be subtle, undermining, softly softly approach, difficult to discern until afterwards, upon reflection. Folk taking the high ground and making the point that I'm on the low ground. Rubbing my nose in it.
It has meant that I've become more of a lone ranger and independent traveller as it's easier to resist retaliation when I don't have to defend a friend or companion who may get caught in the crossfire.
I see it as grist to the mill. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. And take every opportunity to write about it, in blogs or on twitter. Maybe eventually in book form.